Hi Anita, I took it slow! we both talked about taking it slow! Getting to know one another! we both discussed what we been through in the past. we dated for 4 months before we even got intimate! I even said to her! we we’re having so much fun and enjoying each others company and seemed to get better and better each time we would get together. I said to her, I really don’t even care if we got sex involved! she really didn’t seem to respond to it too much? But, I meant it! anyways, it’s all over now and it’s just dealing and feeling right now, “AGAIN”