Dear Ladybug:

I am concerned. I brought something to your awareness that was not there as clearly before and it may cause you some distress. I am worried. If this is distressing, please soothe yourself the best you can, hot bath, tea… write in a journal, or here… I will be back at the computer in 8 hours or so, and if you’d like we can communicate back and forth about this.

I am concerned that you may want to reach out to your mother and that she will not, as I predict, will not comfort you if she feels any kind of a hint of blame. And then she will attack you further… blame you because nothing can be her fault.

Please do not reach out to her. If you have friends, any good friend, reach out to him or her.

Please do take care of yourself:

anita