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Triangle Sun, sorry I didn’t respond to you earlier, I’m just now seeing your comment. I apologize. We will see how this works out since there’s only 1 more strike left here. I got reported 2 weeks ago, which was very odd but anyway I would like to respond.

“There is no courtship anymore. Women are sleeping their way through dozens of “relationships” until they realize it’s too late to have kids. Men are simply using this in their favor and never commit to anything. They waste a good woman’s 20s and then ditch them in search of more sex. Why buy the cow if you already have milk? In the midst of all of this there is this whole notion of letting go everything. Just forget and move on. Don’t think about it. Just let go. We’re basically becoming this society where abandonment and detachment is the way to fix anything. Because why hold on to something or someone when the next best thing that you’ll probably also abandon is a click away. Things do happen fast but people rarely connect and when they do they connect for all the wrong reasons and with the wrong people.”

I have to say in response to – “Women are sleeping their way through dozens of “relationships” until they realize it’s too late to have kids.”

There are women that do behave in that way, have children without being married first and just continue to date just anyone and sleep around. Which is really sad. There’s something very wrong with anyone who freely gives their body away. That is my opinion anyway. Now, not ALL women are like that, as there are many of us who don’t believe in sleeping around. I have high morals, in regards to sleeping in bed with another woman. I for one, have to know a person a really long time and be 100% in love, to have sex with another woman/share my body with her. I dated someone briefly years ago (4 months) and luckily we hadn’t slept with each other yet because she almost killed me in California, trying to push me out of her truck because she was bitter with me because I kindly told her the day before that things were not going to work out between us. There were many good reasons why I had decided to tell her that. 1. She asked me and I was honest with her. 2. She hated my job schedule 3. She was doing things behind my back and I forgave her already twice for that. All the red flags were popping up in my face so quickly in knowing her, luckily I got out at the time before something really bad happened to me.

Anyway, you get what I’m saying… I just don’t give myself away easily to ANYONE.

Hope you are well Triangle sun. Have a great day or evening wherever you are.

M.