Hey Christy,

My question is, do I let it go and attempt to move on? Or do I make one last effort to determine if it’s really the end for my own closure and state of mind?

I guess it comes down to your gut and current feelings. You seem to have come to your own conclusion and are waiting for confirmation from you significant other. Unfortunately you aren’t receiving any answers. What do you want to do, if you had to make a decision right now, what would you do? If he refuses to answer you, then it’s his own fault if you decide to move forward with your life. Clearly if communication is a problem this won’t change automatically if the relationship does resume. If you were to move on, without closure, then make up your own. As Anita has stated above, don’t automatically assume you have done something wrong if you truly believe your not at fault. This just means in future interactions that end up like this you will have to sacrifice your stance to accommodate your SO when he may in fact be in the wrong. This would not be a mutual relationship. Ask yourself, right now, are you happy? If you are in a relationship, what kind is it? Do you want to continue like this?

Hope this helps, post anytime.
Sincerely,
Matty