Dear Ravi:

You are trying to decipher the valid message underneath your possessiveness with Jerry in the description in your last post? Excellent quest! Let’s examine this together then. Possible messages for you to consider, and add to the list your own possible messages:

1. I am not good enough. Others are better than me, so better see she is not finding out how better others are. Once she finds out, she will not want to spend time with (inferior) me.

2. When Jerry communicates with another, they will touch her with their tainted hands (figuratively, as in people touching your possessions with dirty hands) and will make her dirty. I must keep her pure by preventing her being contaminated by others!

What do you think/ feel so far about the two above?

anita