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Kai is a coach and strategist who helps people uncover blind spots and recognize the deeper patterns shaping their lives. With a background in Go strategy, Zen philosophy, and Gestalt coaching, he blends deep insight with practical wisdom. When he’s not coaching, he explores mastery, personal growth, and how to navigate life with clarity and purpose. Connect with him on https://kaipoh.com.

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How I Found Confidence and a New Path When I Felt Inadequate

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“Start where you are. Use what you have. Do what you can.” ~Arthur Ashe

It was a quiet evening at Boat Quay. The sun was setting, casting warm golden hues over the water, and the air smelled faintly of salt and street food. I was sitting on the riverbank with a close friend, my head heavy with thoughts that refused to settle.

“I’m thirty,” I said, breaking the silence. My voice quivered with frustration. “I haven’t achieved anything. Look at Joseph Schooling—he’s younger than me and a gold medalist! My other friend started his own business. And me? I’m just… …