Just WOW… superb. I’m flattered completely. Thanks a ton for writing down sucb heart touchinng poetry.

I know i have a long way to go . Believing that every long journey begins with babysteps, my heartfelt gratitude to you for not only precious time but for active efforts n support. You reminded me of a frnd who introduced me to tiny buddha years bk somehow posted first time here and glad to have such support. Thanks once again 🤝

Really thanks. Surrendering can be done at any time so why not to put best efforts first.
My options under given circunstances are :
1 to go bk to my parents house and divert societal pressure on them .

2. To stay here only, not to move out , keep my character intact by not moving out but to tell my husband to go bk and stay with his mother n brother for few months. Also, to make me equal share holder in house before leaving.

3. To announce publicly all relatives that now i’m moving out, stop bothering about what others say as my kids tell me not to listen anyone, not to take their calls n switched off my phone

I need courage to resist parental pressure

Grateful for taking time out n amazing understanding .
I’m trying to stay separate but families have pressurized me immensely to stay together to the extent of suffocation