Hi Juoda,

I am in a similar situation to you.

You asked whether your crush is likely to contact you. It is really hard for me to say because I don’t know you, your crush, or how it has been between you two before you confessed your attraction to him.

My crush used to be my best friend, she knows me very well and we spent a lot of time together as platonic friends. That was why getting rejected by her was really hard for me, personally. I want to believe that I am getting over my rejection and I am taking active steps towards feeling better.

My crush contacted me after rejecting me. When she rejected me, I felt an overwhelming amount of emotions and burst into uncontrollable crying, which is very unlike me. She was also very taken aback by my reaction and that’s why, only after she had left, she kindly apologized for not reciprocating my feelings for her.

Right now I have blocked her on all messaging and social media. I did not block her because she did something wrong, in fact I totally understand and forgive her, but I blocked her because I need to know for sure that I won’t receive any contact from her and I can continue to process and get over the rejection. It helps to not be thinking about the possibility of her being able to get in touch with me at anytime. In conclusion, I did it for myself.

Your crush might be even doing you a favor by not communicating, they understand that you deserve someone who feels the same way about you as you feel about them. You should not settle for anything less because you are worthy of being loved.

You can ask me anything if you want. I am here for you and I understand it can be difficult.