hi dear friend
I am so sorry for your bad experience. I had the same relationship 3 years ago. We were not in the same city. My boy friend was not a bachelor man, he hide this topic of me. He has lied to me for one and half years. He said to me to marry with me and introduce me to his family while he had wife and child. When I found the facts, I broke up with him. Of course later I continued my relationship with him a short time bcz I loved him and couldn’t forget him and replace someone instead of him but that relationship didn’t relax me so forgot him forever. I understand you very well but it is better to clean your past and don’t think it. Sometimes a break is a good experience for people. We must learn not to rely to anyone especially when that man is away from us.
Time can fix everything and will help you.