Hello to you,

I know what you’re talking about. My ex (2 year relationship) left me at the beginning of the year while I was away for the weekend. He cleared all his stuff out of the flat and I got the surprise when I came home. Never heard or seen him anymore since then. That felt like a real shock!
On the other hand there were red flags (e.g. silent treatments, etc.) but I ignored it and was trying to find the fault with me.
I’m trying to focus on myself and reflect on why I attracted such an unavailable person. I continue my life and focus on my dreams despite the pain. I refuse to become bitter and hard.

All the best to you