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  • July 26, 2014 at 12:40 pm in reply to: What to do? #61823
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    ugh !! 1.5 hours until dinner… stress ball.. sweating my butt off… Over thinking this dinner is in over drive !!!!!

    Give me strength to not screw things up and make her see that I am still struggling with this !!

    The what “if” scenario is killing me!! I want to be with her for hours

    I am trying to hear everyone tell me I am “overthinking” !! I can not get my brain to stop !

    July 26, 2014 at 7:39 am in reply to: What to do? #61792
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    very nervous about me dinner meeting with my GF today! Not know if there will be any outcomes.

    Everyone tells me I am over thinking it, just very hard because of not having our normal routine for the past few weeks. She mentioned that she wanted to catch up.! I know she may want to see how I have been working on me…. which has been such a challenge because of this void in my life.

    She has sent me positive texts over the past few weeks … Telling me she loves me, take the time to work on YOU. It is all for the best in the long run… I few I love yous (not as many as I have had before, or what I think I need at this present time)

    Will there be more after dinner? or just dinner and go our separate ways ( we are meeting, no picking up). I just want her to come home with me and lay, kiss and hold her tonight…. I have not had that with her in 3 weeks!

    It is going to be a long day!!

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    July 25, 2014 at 12:39 pm in reply to: What to do? #61764
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    thanks
    I have spend endless hours, googling, blogging, trying to figure this out

    July 25, 2014 at 11:46 am in reply to: What to do? #61760
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    Thanks Matt,

    In the last year with her I have just done nothing but My Kids and Her!! I have really only have down 2 things for myself ( GF actually mentioned that to me) I have always put every ahead of myself ( my ex wife says the reverse )

    I am trying to find myself again. My counselor ask me to write down 6 things that the “old me” has done! I am struggling with answering those!

    July 25, 2014 at 10:42 am in reply to: What to do? #61754
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    One of the other issues is that my kids and ex-wife have been a challenges

    we did not wait the “6 month” thing. So my kids have not been accepting as hers mine are (8-11). So we scaled back having my kids to be involved for about 4 months. So the weekends I did not have my kids we were together and her kids would be there from time to time.

    My ex is another story. So when she learned about my GF she ran a background check on her. I already knew what was on there ( DUI from 5 yrs ago) and then my ex called my GF about a week into our relationship and wanted to tell my GF that she was not comfortable because we did not wait to introduce like she did with her BF to my kids.
    My ex as a very strong willed women and has become a tick in our relationship. My GF has seen me beat down by my kids and ex wife

    July 25, 2014 at 10:18 am in reply to: What to do? #61750
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    Thanks all.
    So I communicated with her since my post. I asked about dinner, she said how about lunch?. I gave a time and said I would pick her up and then said she would just meet me.

    I am anxious, nervous and do not know what to expect. We went from 100 mph to about 10 mph, in communication. She has been taking time to her self and her kids. I told her I missed our chats like we had and she said “she is just taking her mental break too” I do not have my kids as much and do not have much else to do in my spare time. So I am a little lost in trying to find myself again. I have been trying to find him, because she told me that she wanted that guy back again.

    I am trying to work on myself on guidance to get that person back

    June 17, 2014 at 1:34 pm in reply to: Driving myself nuts? #59041
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    Also, we have spoke about future plans with our lives together!! And now I am not sure. UGH

    June 17, 2014 at 1:23 pm in reply to: Driving myself nuts? #59038
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    We will get through this
    You know my love for you …I know you know
    I truly enjoy tell it to you
    I have had such a connection with you mentally and physically that I have never felt with anyone
    I am your partner in life and look forward to exploring everything with you for the rest of my days
    She said
    I love u after this

    Thoughts ? AM i losing my mind? I hate this separation
    I am trying to keep busy…. but I am having issues with that. I do not want to push her away I am fearing the worst

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    June 17, 2014 at 1:22 pm in reply to: Driving myself nuts? #59037
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    as time goes by)
    I overwhelmed by EVERYTHING right now. I need you to be stronger, healthier, and mentally sound.

    I told her
    Yeah I tossed and turned just a little myself …
    We will get through this
    You know my love for you …I know you know
    I truly enjoy tell it to you
    I have had such a connection with you mentally and physically that I have never felt with anyone
    I am your partner in life and look forward to exploring everything with you for the rest of my days
    She said
    I love u after this

    Thoughts ? AM i losing my mind? I hate this separation

    • This reply was modified 10 years, 5 months ago by Caring Guy.
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