Carlos, no matter what advice you get; no one will help you as much as yourself. I went through an unexpected breakup 3 months ago. The first month has horrible. I couldn’t smile, i couldn’t work, i could not study. I went on a week long vacation to cuba with some close friends and took 2 months off school. Mid way though the month, I felt extremely depressed, lonely and useless. I had been in relationship for the past 8 years of my life, i had never been single nor knew what it was like living by myself.

As time went by (today marking the 3rd month), things started to partially sink in. The advices i had received from friends and family FINALLY started to make sense. Its not the end of the road bud. I am also 21, and emotionally very weak. She comes to my mind every other day. I simply close my eyes, smile, wish her all the luck and success in the world, and try to think ahead. Its not easy, and it WILL take time. But you will eventually get through it.

Shoot me a message if you need someone to talk too. Speaking wit individuals in the same state of mind helped me tremendously!

-H