Hello,

I’ve made the decision to stay with him for now. I feel that in the end we were both at fault and that we love each other enough to try and make it work. I’ve let him know that I’m taking counselling and that it is up to him to do his part to make things right. If not, then I am leaving for good.

Anita, I really appreciate you taking the time to reply and listen to the ramblings of this lost little girl! I won’t lie when I say you may have become an inspiration for me, hehe 🙂

anita,

Thank you for your input. I know what I did that morning was wrong. Things I said out of love for him ended up hurting him. I didn’t think of it as abuse, though, and that has opened my eyes. While I think it is wrong to abuse in any context, I can see more why my love did what he did and why he lashed out. My anxiety is difficult to control at times but I’m going to make a more conscious effort.