No kids involved, not working for 3 (?) years, sponging off of the spouse’s income. If these situations were reversed, you would all be telling her to leave his ‘sorry, lazy a*s’.

I’m a male who came here for some advice, but modern females want everything – gender equality, pay equality, and a free salary while making the husband pay. It’s biased bordering on criminal.

My wife lives to standards that I can’t afford and she’ll never get a job good enough to pay for. Why should I dedicate my life to living by her minimum standards?

Loyalty and appreciation are the bedrock of a good marriage. If you are spending his coin, you should be doing as he says, just as it would be the other way round.

OP, your post comes across as a fantasy-living drama Queen looking for free cash. I hope upon divorce you find the sucker to fund it.

• This reply was modified 8 years, 3 months ago by JanyB.