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  • March 11, 2016 at 9:33 am in reply to: Why can't I recover from total heartbreak??? #98684
    Jonnym
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    Hi Anita,

    In fairness there was reasonable contact until the last 4 weeks and now its very sporadic and related to issues re the house and so on. Its almost like the light switch has gone off despite all the good things I did for her and the children, amazing given that she left an abusive husband who paid no maintenance but she still has contact. For the first time in my life I felt relaxed in a relationship and maybe given our personalities I eased back to much. All I know that is that the real me has been lost and I have tried to pull myself out of it too no avail…this is not who i am, I have always been a rock to other people and I mourn the loss of the future I thought we had too.

    I’m glad I found this forum and hope to take some solace from what I read.

    Jonny

    March 11, 2016 at 5:14 am in reply to: Why can't I recover from total heartbreak??? #98659
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    Hi Inky,

    Thanks for that, agree about the planning bit now i look back at how things unfolded. Just as she had a complicated life so did i, both divorced and so on. Buying the house was the start of the new chapter in our lives, I am now selling it, which in itself is very sad. Agree with the children, I really miss them and their lives have been turned upside down too.The pain I feel is overwhelming and I can’t see the wood for the trees, this is not me!! I need to find some coping mechanisms before it drives me mad…

    Jonny

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