Hi

After reading your post I feel

Please work on your divorce and dont get in to another relationship until you get a divorce finalised as it might be a rebound relationship and sometimes you will have a different opinion after your divorce

Consult a suitable psychologist to help cope with your divorce and don’t do dating to seek support from women there. They are not trained psychologists.

If you go for a divorce, finalise your divorce, heal from the divorce, self reflect about your past relationship failure, work on yourself and go for dating.

Please let her go and the element of trust is broken here with the person you met

This is a forum for support and we intend good outcomes for you

All the best