anita,
By too caring I meant that I was always being too caring. Haha that sounds weird but that is what it is. For example I would ask him how his day was every night and that was evidently too caring. If he needed anything then I would have gone out of my way to help him. I have always been caring to everybody that I meet because I really believe that if we were to all treat others in a kind manner then the world will be a better place. Thank you for your advices. I have been doing most of the items in your list. I am avoiding him as much as possible. For example taking another walking route so I do not have to see him, etc. The one thing that I feel that I am really struggling with is to give up hope of getting back together. Part of me feels like I really need to for me but the other half of me does not want to for the relationship we had. Thank you again!