Hi,
My ex sent me a letter like that when we broke up and it didn’t really help me fell better. It was very nice yes, I appreciated it a lot, but it made me cry and feel guilty about making him suffer. I would advice you to just send him his things and, if you need it, a quote thanking him for everything and wishing him the best. Short, straight to the point and not romantic at all. Skip the presents since he probably won’t use them and will keep them hidden because otherwise it would hurt him. Don’t try to get him back nor to keep him close, it’s extremely stressing (I know it from personal experience). And wouldn’t probably work long term. Let him go and, if you are meant to, you’ll get back together in the future and when you are both prepared for it.
Hope it helps and wish you the best healing!
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This reply was modified 6 years ago by Mei.