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  • July 17, 2015 at 5:37 am in reply to: I don't know if I want to go on a trip with my bf #79993
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    Hey Adam P, Thanks for replying, I appreciate your suggestions. I would have done all you have suggested but my boyfriend freaked out and broke up with me for my decision. Is it very wrong that I initially planned the trip with him and changed my mind? He says that’s a dealbreaker. He says I know that if I decide to go without him then we’re done, so my decision to go without him means I’m choosing to end things…I feel like he’s manipulating me or strongarming me to do what he wants! Is there any way to compromise or are we at an impasse and I should just give up? I love him so much.

    July 16, 2015 at 12:42 pm in reply to: I don't know if I want to go on a trip with my bf #79960
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    Hi Anita, Thank you for your response! You are right, I think I knew it all along, and you verbalized it perfectly. I just need to own my decision that’s best for me, and be able to sit with those bad feelings. Well…I just told him my decision was final, and he doesn’t want anything to do with me anymore. He is so angry and said I chose to end this because he gave me an ultimatum: go without him and we’re done. Ugh, this is really terrible pain…

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