Hi Reha,
I am a divorced father and miss my son terribly.
I don’t think there is anything wrong with ‘living for your children’ because I know how easily they can be taken away. However, you do need to get balance and love yourself also. You need some ‘me’ time where you can have a life outside of your children if only for a short time each week.
Good luck and keep strong.
Lee Davy
http://www.needyhelper.com