Joseph,
I very much appreciate the suggestion on this book, it seems reading about mindfulness is a useful tool to reach it. I really think using both meditation and reading will bring to be mindful in a matter of time.
As for my life on autopilot, the times I found myself reflecting were usually as soon as I was removed from the moment and alone. As time went on and I became more conscious on how I was acting I could actually hear and feel myself on auto pilot in the moment but didn’t know how to escape it.