Dear Marco,

I’m sorry you are going through this difficult  situation. And I feel worse for your poor wife who has no say in this matter. Sounds like she has remained quiet in most occasions when your sisters attacked her or when they showed no respect to your and your wife’s privacy in your parents’ house. No woman should have to be subject to this kind of humiliation in her husband’s home by his family. I don’t know how much you have done to protect her honor when you were living at your parents’ house.  Maybe your sisters got away with too much injustice towards your wife. Ask yourself how much disrespect  you would be willing to take from your wife’s family? I think your wife has taken enough. Remember, you are the center of your wife’s life. Your sisters have their own lives. They should not interfere so much. You don’t cause problems in their lives. It is wrong of them to cause you and your wife so much pain. If they truly cared about you, they would go out of their way to accept your wife for who she is. Because that would make you happy. Sounds like your wife is going out of her way to allow you to maintain a relationship with your sisters even after they hurt her so much. And I’m sure she’s doing this because she loves you. Please stand by your wife and defend her honor. Put her needs before your own as she has done for you.  If your sisters have any respect for you, and are interested in keeping a relationship with you, let them know they will have to accept your family. Your family comes first.