purpose of telling that he financially helped me is to tell you how supportive he was. now you are judging me as if i am some gold digger i never asked him to pay my fees he willingly paid my fees bcz he dropped out from university and i had less amount to complete my degree. i didnt say he financially supported my mother/brother.my family is very respectable they would never accept someones money. i was just telling you background how much pressure i was facing when he asked me to get married.if i had any interest in his wealth i would have accepted his proposal even tho he was jobless but his family is very well off he was relying on them and i didnt want that. i never asked him to take me on shopping or give me money may be it was the reason he found me different from other girls.after his engagement i tried to stay away from him but he couldnt resist he texted called me to meet everyday my brother and sister were against these meetups but everytime i made excuses about job interview or smthing like that.he shuld have distance himself but he kept forcing me to meet he says i wont change a bit after marriage we will do same stuff and go out i told him this is wrong in evry way then he start crying and his melodrama made me rethink everthing but one month before his marriage he became more loving and caring and kept coming to my house and asked me if you say yes i will stop my marriage and then i started to think..plz plz guys dont judge me i am already suffering way too much m totally on bed bcz of his behavior he made me suffer with all these things he had nothing in his hands but still provoked me to say yes i had my future plans but i chnaged my mind and now i have nothing he is 80% burnt and his czn told me he wants to get rid of me and wants to start his normal life after recovery. if this was his plan then why did he created this drama why did he asked me to wait for him

he lied so many times when we were in this relationship but i didnot care much at that time. but when he left for his marriage ceremony he texted he is with his friend and he is not talking with anyone in his family but i asked his czn brother he said everything is fine and we are enjoying this gathering and that my bf is sitting and laughing with his to be wife. from that day i was really upset but he denied these things and lied about his wedding night as well his father was not in hospital i asked his czn brother who had no idea that i am related to my bf he thought m some random girl who is talking to him on facebook

dear inky
plz guide me your answers are very short this thing is not as easy as your thinking

yes his mother was also interested at that time but she told him this girl will not accept your proposal if she does so then i will go to her mother otherwise i wont ask her mother

his mother set him up with this girl and with in 5 months they got married now God knows what is he doing if he is lying with me.today he told me that his wife tried to hold his arm but he pulled her away he did not touch her