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silvery blueParticipantI am too weak to set peace in conflicts.
silvery blueParticipantI am sorry. I should write it on paper first…
I need to take responsibility for my emotions in a healthier way… stop, rest, calm… write it on paper.. process… and send it when I feel better and only if it is really necessary…
I am terrified of “defensive” energies, which my mind evaluates like a need of others to dominate me.
I know it is only in my mind. It’s not real. But it threw me into total chaos inside.
It is good that it came back… I know that I need to work on myself harder… much harder…
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silvery blueParticipantJust rest.
silvery blueParticipantPlease, let’s not argue 🙏🦋
I have to stop, too… I have been too effected… flashbacks from bullying… the atmosphere is too intense…
Let’s rest, please.
silvery blueParticipantI am sorry I didn’t manage to maintain peace and compassion, but I have been very sick now.
I am sorry.
silvery blueParticipantAnita, I am terrified by the energy you send. Again. 😥 I have been in a very bad episode. I need to solve what is going on with me. I cannot think or feel normally now.
silvery blueParticipantAnita, I can’t believe what you have written in your post now at 9:39 and I am leaving for good.
This is too much for me. I can’t continue.
silvery blueParticipantEarlier in this thread I posted:
Everyone needs love, protection and respect… Everyone needs to be offered the feeling of security and non-fear. If we decide to set healthy boundaries during conflict, the boundaries will protect everyone. They will not isolate us from others. They will only help everyone understand our world, our needs, our difficulties and suffering… so that we could cultivate compassion, the capacity to understand suffering, and help to remove it, transform it…
Can we try?
I know it’s hard. ❤️
I’ll let you explan the conflict to each other… I just needed to remind us… we all need the same, love, feeling of security, understanding…
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silvery blueParticipant“I’ve got to say that I was rather surprised, and honestly, a bit upset when I saw Anita posted in your thread this morning, expressing empathy and compassion for the suffering you went through as a child, however without saying a word about the past conflict, or offering an apology.
To me, that’s not how you repair a relationship. You cannot just pretend that nothing happened and walk in as if no harm was done previously. You cannot continue business-as-usual without acknowledging and taking responsibility for your past actions…”
It really hit me hard.
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silvery blueParticipantOne day I will find a way to connect my love and healthy boundaries so that I don’t feel like I’m hurting myself or others.
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September 3, 2025 at 7:28 pm in reply to: How to not get discouraged when trying to make friends in adulthood #449268silvery blueParticipantI think it is very common to feel lonely.
The paradox is that it happens even when we are not lonely – we have friends, a partner, …
Because it is a feeling. And we must work with it internally. Nothing or noone from outside can solve loneliness… because it is inside.
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silvery blueParticipantI’m a little bit sad.
I feel very stupid…
But it is okay.
I did the right thing. I did it from my heart. 😊
I have to learn not to be so eager to give away my heart. It is my inner work… I take responsibility for my feelings. It is my foolishness…
Love is protection. Everyone needs to feel protected and safe.
Boundaries are not meant to isolate us, but connect us in a different, healthy way.
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September 3, 2025 at 6:51 pm in reply to: Naming abuse, Holding boundaries, Restoring dignity. #449265silvery blueParticipant🫂☀️
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silvery blueParticipant🫂 ❤️
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silvery blueParticipantTee and Alessa, I understand you. ❤️
Maybe Anita would like to add her point of view, or explain her feelings about the conflict?
I am open to hear you, too, Anita. 🌸
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