Hi Anita,

Thank you for your comments.

I don’t necessarily mean materially. I mean in the sense of ambition, I want the best for myself in my career and I want to be with someone who wants the best in their own career and ambitions. I feel that this is important in a relationship? I know it’s not a massively important thing but I feel that if I stayed, it would create an imbalance, as he wouldn’t fully understand my dreams if he has none himself. The problem is not that he is in debt, he has been in debt for most of our relationship and that hasn’t been a deterrent for me. I wanted to help him out of it and make him more comfortable but he doesn’t help himself by spending all the time 🙁

You are right I feel, in the sense that it is hard to find someone that you can be yourself 100% around. This is what saddens me the most. I really do miss him 🙁 But I have made my decision now and must stick with it, whether it was right or wrong. If we are meant to be together, hopefully destiny will bring us together again in the future.

Thanks again for your response Anita 🙂 x