Chad,

Your response is exactly what I needed. I recently made a stupid simple mistake on St. Patrick’s Day of going to a gentleman’s club and blowing $300. I’m 26 and happily married since August 2013. I feel absolutely awful about this…and my anxiety has been high since then I’m struggling at work, I can’t attend my meetings or be around others. I’m not a bad person but feel I have let my wife down…. she was OK with the situation but I don’t need to be in those situations personally I known its not a good idea. God forbid something would have happened that ended my relationship. I’m starting to ramble now, anyways, I appreciate your advice, I known a good person j just need to start thinking before acting. I’m no longer going to drink and that’s something Im serious about. I have made this promise to myself and others but I always break it….not this time, I see the pattern with drinking and remorse….it needs to stop. Finally, I’m going to start being the person I want to be, no more talking about it, I need to start being about it. I’m going to continue to look to tinybuddhq for aupport , today is my first day here and hearing mothers stories and knowing I’m not alone does help. I’ve never opened up liked this before, not to anyone….figured it wasttime to start. Thanks again.

Wittyd