Dear Shae03:

The movie date, holding hands and a kiss, you wrote that it went really well. That was the first and only time you got together in person, your very first date. It is possible she felt something was off on that first and only date but went along with the date anyway. And later, she didn’t want to tell you what turned her off.

It could be that the date did go well enough but something happened in her life after that first date and she doesn’t want a second date.

It seems like she is not interested in a second date. Maybe you can ask her in a way that she will feel comfortable answering. You can tell her you just want to understand so you are no longer confused, you just to know her reasoning: was the first date good for her, or not? That is one question to start with.

Please do post again…

anita