Thank you Anita.. Please take your time…You all have been very helpful….I want to change the way, I see or perceive people as they are accept them as they are and not as what they want me to be….But, how is it possible to do this, without getting to know them better, in the process, I get hurt in the end.. since I gave in too much for them and go back only very little in return…which i feel decieved or disappointed sometime? Should I make boundaries with everyone at each person’s level? If so, how can I get to know them better and would it be not, that I’m trying to maintain a distance from them, because of my own over thinking or insecure feeling? What if, genuine people who would like to be with me at any circumstance, get hurts by my behaviour?

I don’t know.. as usual.. I’m not able to figure out on my own and I’m confused…