Dear suede:

I am sorry you were ghosted!

Regarding your last two lines: you wrote “meant to be” – I don’t believe that a relationship could possibly be meant-to-be. I don’t believe in predestination. Also, you wrote “maybe he wasn’t the one”- again, I don’t believe in there being the-one as I don’t believe in predestination.

I suppose you do believe in predestination? If you do, how do you fit the fact that he ghosted you with the possibility being that he is the-one and that you were meant to be together? How do you fit in these pieces?

anita