Dear Phil:

I would like to correspond with you on this topic for as long as it takes. For that purpose I need to understand you more. In the post before last, I didn’t understand parts of it. If you would like to explain the following, please do:

You wrote: “I guess what I am saying is it may have started out ok”- What started out okay? What was okay at the beginning?

“…The game was still somehow ‘fighting is worth the love she saved’.” – I don’t understand “fighting is worth the love she saved”- no understanding of this quote.

“At the time I just wanted to understand why she could never enjoy a family instead of the constant fighting. That’s what I mean by ‘what could have been but never was’.”- By “what could have been” you mean a peaceful family life… tell me more about what “could have been” means to you…?

“Now it just seems like wasted time returning after all those years.” – returning where? She is no longer alive. You mean returning to thinking about this…?

“I know life holds no guarantees. But, for most people, time has a way of changing perspectives.”- What guarantees are you referring to and what are the changing perspectives you are referring to?

anita