Dear Ravi:

It seems to me that these very days you are building confidence in your own self, you are becoming a person that you, Ravi, respect. You are earning your own respect. This is priceless. I mean, literally, priceless.

And since nothing is permanent, no one can disprove an assertion you can make that indeed you and her cannot be separated permanently. So it is not a delusion to state that.

Your attitude of letting go of what you have no power over (and focusing on what you do have power over) is so very important to your well being, necessary, really.

anita