Hi Anita,

I understand and respect your clarification a lot, I have have one here too, first; I believe that there are not 2 persons on earth who can be similar in every aspect, who can agree with each other all the way, and even if you think you found that person someday you will find that thing that annoys you about him, and it is up to you to decide if you accept it or not, second; it is from our differences and disagreements that we learn, how would be like know if 100 years ago humankind just agreed on every thing and just enjoyed themselves, it is from our difference that we drew our strength and I think am outing Obama here!?

It was that post when that guy asked who would you preference to be the victim or the driver in a car accident, and here am using my memory, I just could not find that post again, they are too much, and correct me if I misunderstood. You mentioned that you would prefer that this victim would dye if he was a child abuser, and this just did not feel right for me, in my opinion no one deserves to die for a mistake he made, first; you denayal that person the chance of Redeeming himself, imagin if that abuser that had died would some day relise what he did wrong and just said sorry for the one he abused and asked for forgiveness, even if that abused child did not accept it, at least he will learn that there is a path for forgiveness, and what might that had brought to his life! Second; I believe that someone should deserve the punishment of death if and only if , he intentionally planned to kill some one and killed him, and that’s not just for the sake of punishment to be equal as the wrong made, but only to raise the meaning of life and the value of humankind. I hope I had put it right here?! and I add here, that my statement then was kinda provocative to see if you would accept if a disagreed with you, and for you to keep talking, and please pardon me I just sometime cannot resist mind games 😉

I totally disagree, they are different, I agree that anger could turn to hate but that is only if you do not deal with your anger, that’s my opinion, I thought of sending you a link describing the diference between but you can just search google for hate vs anger, and here I quote the first line I just saw, and believe me I did not search it before ever, – hate and anger may seem to appear similar but actually they are not-
I think deep anger is not enough for hate coz hate and love are related to desire, and anger is just a state of mind tolerance for stress!

You can check it and tell what you think, and if you feel it, you can make a new post called hate vs anger, we could have a fruitful debate about it here?!

Again I would like to say that I enjoy our discussion and looking forward for more.

cya,