Hi Anita,

Am too here feeling relief, I just made a new post specially for you called how does your mind work? In it I explain how I imagin my mind work, may be if you read it you can understand me better, and please share the same with me.

Am sorry if I presumed that, about no body deserve to die, it just feels that you are being hard on your self, I have no right to say it, but I feel compelled to. Please bare with me here, you were presented with adioema, of choosing one of the two worse out comes, it is either living with physical trauma from being hit by a car, or the emotional trauma of hitting some one by the car. It’s like comparing between being physically paralyzed or mentally challenged. This is just a thrioritical excercise, why did you feel that you have to include your child abuse experience to deal with it? And pardon me for asking, you have all the right not to answer and forget all about it 🙂

I did not mean life in the wide meaning, I Kent oneself life the state of being alive, I a sence that a certain society should learn to value others and there life and there state of being alive, and if you did not respect the life of others you should be punched with death penalty so that the society would learn the value of some one being alive, the value of the soul, the body, the blood.

The value of life in general is just a state of accommodation that is set by the society, the society can set the value of life in caring for animals or the right of some one to express his words, and this sourly includes child abuse as the primary target as these children are the only ones who will be able to keep the values that so,e Scotty set.

With out both concepts we can not live, but with out the first concept we will perish.

Theoretically, can I ask you what act of redemption might an abuser perform in order to be forgiven by his abuser?

I really admire your Openss to be ideas!

Cya,