That is a great point Anita. Small things are just as important as larger issues. I guess it just scares me thinking that someone I love could be nothing as they seem. It makes me fear trusting the people I’m close to. As in this woman’s story, she was so happy and trusted the man she married, only to find out some terrible things. I wish I could trust better, as the people in my life deserve it since I’ve never had any reason to not trust anyone, but hearing this story just makes me irrationally suspicious. Thanks for your insights!