Dear nicwhips:

Why don’t you and your boyfriend not talk on the phone or text or anything until the therapy session this weekend?

First thing in therapy, I hope the therapist will help you and your boyfriend come to certain rules of interacting, for example a limit on how many times you talk or text in between get togethers. What you are describing is easily solved if there are certain rules in place, to start with. Please do post again.

anita