Crocus,

That was just perfect! No you dont need advise at all imo. was beautiful and I’m so glad you shared. I know that guy and nearly lost my self trying to help and for way too long. it was so plain and clear to me clinging desperately to that misery was all he knew & may ever know. Getting involved caring for someone then learning they are NOT who they claimed or appeared to be is part of this honing process, not for them it’s for us, to learn and test truth. It’s like a living thing must thrive and would disappear/ die if kept in a box, so it grows when challenged and shared.
Thank you so very much