Dear spiritflower:

It is possible that your friend is unreasonable, that is that she will not share with you the reason for her anger that time, a reason you still don’t know. It is also possible that the reason is right in front of you and you don’t see it.

When she told you she had other plans and couldn’t meet you this last time, you wrote in response: “Oh, thats okay maybe next time”- I wonder why you were insincere in that reply. It was not okay for you. A sincere reply would have been something like: “I am so disappointed, I looked forward to us meeting so much! I hope we can meet soon?” Wouldn’t it?

anita