Dear sunnycoons:

I read your other thread and don’t want to post there in case you want fresh input there from others. I agree with what you wrote there, that you are trying to do too much at this point. Before doing that love challenge, I believe, you need to do another challenge and that is to get insight into your childhood where (see “2)” above, it seems to me, you were hurt deeply, repeatedly by someone and you are not seeing it currently or not completely. And maybe you are still in contact with that person, still angry at that person but deflecting it from being directed at him/ her and instead projecting it to others.

Insight, in addition to learning skills such as asking before assuming, is sometimes necessary.

What do you think?

anita