Dear khushboo-a:

As I understand it, you had a very lonely childhood. Your parents did not attend to you emotionally. Maybe they fed you and sheltered you… maybe they bought you nice clothes and toys. Maybe they told you how to live your life, but they did not pay attention to how you felt all those years: didn’t notice when you were sad, maybe told you to “cheer up”- didn’t notice when you were afraid, lonely. And so you were lonely then and ever since. Am I correct in principle? Can you tell me more?

anita