Dear idonno:

From all that you shared on this thread, it will be consistent on her part to not open up to you emotionally over dinner. Those “pesky thoughts of doom and demise” as far as the relationship goes are not unrealistic, from what you shared. So, if I was you, I would prepare myself for her bringing up divorce. I would prepare my response to it. If you want you can prepare right here, in another post, writing how you would respond to her request for a divorce, if brought up tonight.

anita