Dear tochjedo:

How to get through a heartache? How to get through pain… My answer is: feel it, feel the pain, let it be. And focus on learning, learning from what was and from your experience every day. Instead of focusing on the pain, get curious: what is there for me to see today that I didn’t see yesterday?

Continue your education, the one outside medical school. There is so much to learn.

You had an 8 year relationship with another man. What did you learn from that relationship?

How could reality and fantasy come together for you in the future, in regard to a relationship?

anita