claudia,
its not a big deal to loose virginity . its natural . i don’t understand why people think its big deal u cannot stop such thing . but let me tell you sex is over rated else well. make sure that you shouldn’t end up in bad consequences like this old man get attached with you . or you get emotional attached with him . and yes protection is must it goes without saying . u have no idea how many people hide so many things and just pretend to act as super good person . frankly speaking its your life u make ur choice . honestly speaking sex has nothing to do with relationship . u should decide what you u want first ? casual sex or relationship .