Dear foolinlove:

So he flirted before the driving job, then again during the job. And he didn’t take responsibility. Excusing his behavior being “only (during) a job” is not taking responsibility.

It is nice that he cooks and cleans and open about his life otherwise. But what can you do? You can’t make his flirting behavior disappear from your mind because he cooks and cleans. You can’t un-know what you know.

He has to know his flirting behavior is a crucial issue for you, an issue that can end the relationship. He needs to know the seriousness of it. It seems like he thinks it is not serious. He doesn’t get it. Make sure he adequately gets it.

anita