Dear mochiyou:

When you wrote that you question whether you should have the baby, being almost in your third trimester, what do you mean? I don’t understand.

Poor you, being in such a difficult situation, my goodness! There got to be a way out of this. First bring yourself to a state of calm the best you can. Maybe adopt ‘the end of the world” line of thinking. I take on this kind of thinking when I am desperate enough: my world may very well be ending as I know it. It is all bad, more than I can handle and there is nothing I can do today. So I am going to let it be (let the job end, let the husband be unhappy, etc.) and I am not going to care today, this moment. I am letting the end happen.

This way you relax into all that you fear.’

Try it?

anita