hi all,

first of all, you sound a lot clearer to me than in your first post bigglasses! I do believe you when you say that something clicked 😉

anita, I really like the input you give, but sometimes I can’t find the colour in what you say.. meaning it’s leaning towards judgemental. even though it’s very clear you are writing with the intention of helping someone, I do think being as specific as to tell someone to be done with her husband, can’t be done. not because you are not allowed to have formed an opinion, but simply because that is something that the person needs to see for themselves. no one outside can rush their personal process. remember, yes people share a lot, but we never know the whole story..