Dear Kman:

Good to have you back a month and 3 weeks after the last post. I wouldn’t expect logic to be the guiding force in people’s choices (the long distance issue). What matters is that you are free from abuse in your life and that you keep it this way!

I don’t think you missing that flight had anything to do with her behavior which was unpredictable, moody, unreliable.

Choose the next girlfriend… wisely! What if there was such a thing as a Relationship Resume where you record your relationships and what you learned from them, for future reference… more than a reference, for the learning experience.

Many people invest a lot in formal education while learning from relationships for the purpose of choosing better in the future is often much more relevant and significant to one’s well being!

anita