Dear Ravi:

I didn’t know that a loving feeling in your society is a taboo when there is no physical intimacy. This is new to me. A feeling is a taboo. Amazing but true.

I am also not very familiar with arranged marriages, and I am thinking it is different in different families. I thought that if you approach her father and he approves of you, that will make your loving feelings the approval that she needs. this is complicated.

Almost bed time. Study and take care of yourself.

anita