Thanks badseed and Anita for reply. Lot of times I did wonder about his competency. Sometimes I ask him, do you hate me? and he always replies with no. One time I got frustrated and said i feel like this therapy is not working, it feels like i’ll continue till i’m very old and his respond was it’s ok, you are a nice person i don’t mind seeing you when you are old. I wondered later on that shouldn’t the respond be something like, no you are making good progress etc..
Also, instead of saying he doesn’t hate me, shouldn’t we explore why this is so important to me that he should not hate me?

Sometimes it makes me wonder that he wants me to be dependent on him. But not sure whether it’s part of his therapy style?