Thanks Anita for the reply.

I think you make sense, therapy is difficult especially if there is a strong attachment but it shouldn’t be this painful after so many years.

Right now, I do agree with you that it is causing more damage than help but i’m afraid that after a few days i’ll miss him and go back..:(..I think, at that time, i should remember that if my feelings are not getting validated and I cannot communicate freely – that’s not therapy.