Dear kiolabear:

You are experiencing strong emotions right now and it will be a while before you feel good again. But feel good- you will. Soon enough the pain will weaken and you will feel hope and joy again. You will see.

The two of you chose- without much awareness- harmful talk and actions that night. There are lessons to learn from this:

* No drinking and driving.
* When you say something, it can- and often should be taken literally. When you say something, you can’t unsay it, so give it some thought before you speak when angry.
* Drinking in moderation- it is supposed to make you feel good, isn’t it? Not destroy a relationship, so…

Do you agree with the above lessons and are there any other?

anita